I have a question for you. First let me set it up. Lets say your wife agreed to do this and lets just say she agreed to a threesome with you and a friend where you watch to start out and join in at some point. Knowing that she would want your friend to think she is an amazing lay, what might be normal barriers for her when she is with you, for example; maybe she doesn’t swallow or let you shoot your load on her face, are not an issue with your friend in the heat of the moment and in an effort to impress your friend she readily turns her face up and opens her mouth when he announces he is going to cum.
How would you feel about that? I ask because it is a real issue that you may have to face and requires an honest assessment of your own state of mind. Would you then expect it of her when it is just the two of you? Would you cover such issues before it happened? What if it happened anyway?
This is a real issue that many couples in this lifestyle report. Along the line, they grow comfortable with their own boundaries and introducing a new partner with different expectations can cause her to do things that are outside her normal, comfortable and accepted boundaries. Sometimes she decides to loosen those restrictions at home afterwards or only feels comfortable doing them when she is playing the “hotwife”.
For the ladies out there I would love your perspective here too.
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I am really curious. I will withhold my answer for a few days.
As dumb as it may sound, I really think it is admirable of a woman to put her self out there in this way. This takes some courage to say the least. Rather than look down upon them, society should celebrate women who go after what they want be it it personally, sexually or professionally. Their husbands deserve some credit too for being man enough to let her express her sexuality.
I love to be the hot wife fantasy girl. My husband has all kinds of uses for that attitude.
Looks like you certainly embrace it! That is a sexy attitude for a sexy woman. Thanks for sending this my way.
I imagine a vacation. Just her and I. We met these two gentlemen at the resort pool where she flirted heavily. We found them at the bar later that night. We all got drunk but by the end of the night she had extended an invitation to our suite the next afternoon to cure their hangovers.
My wife tells me she did this with a friend as a teenager. Fuuuuuck.